Today we will be discussing some
of the attitude that makes some ladies go from Church to Church for a husband
solution because this issue becoming rampaged in our society, some ladies sometimes
attribute the problem to witchcraft, the truth be told, some ladies are the
architect of their own problems, we have outline some attitude that ladies have
to “Delete” from their life so that they
don’t remain a spinster, I want us to gear up our discussion to the reason why
we are here but before we continue I will like to know if you have read our
previous post that talked about LADY, if you haven’t read it, I will advise you to read it here so that
you can follow up this discussion because this discussion is the continuation
of LADY, if you
have read it, let’s go straight to business.
SMOKING: nothing makes someone look irresponsible like smoking, a
man is often reprimanded not to talk of a woman, smoking can make any lady miss
her chance of a better life at a particular time because no responsible man
will want to talk any lady that smokes into relationship that will lead to
marriage in fact ladies that smokes are seen as prostitutes, so avoid smoking
as a lady.
ABUSE OF ALCOHOL: some men asked if alcohol is made for ladies
because of the manner in which some ladies abuse it, they drinks alcohol like
water, I had wish it is possible their blood would have converted to alcohol
due to the manner they consume alcohol, some persons claim that it is good to
take little quantity of alcohol once in a while in regards to doctors advice,
men are daily asked to reduce their intake of alcohol because of the chemical
use for the preservation and processing of alcohol, women should stop browsing
alcohol like the pages on the internet, no responsible man will want to talk
any lady who has taken alcohol as a do or die affair, I mean a lady that cannot
do without alcohol for a day.
CONSTANT CLUBBING: some ladies house is club house, ask them the
name of any club, they will call it and even tell you the latest club that is
rocking in town, such ladies all they do is to get dress every night and set
off to the club, 90 percent of the ladies binding and casting in any church is
the candidate of that association (single ladies and clubbers for life), at the
beginning they will enjoy it but when it get to the time of marriage and in the
marriage that is when they will know that clubbing is a different World that is
in another World.
PROMISCUOUS HABIT: hotel and brothel babies, if is not possible in
the house lets go to hotel, or jump from John’s bed to Peter’s then to
Barnabas, money will come, cloths will come, five star restaurant will be
waiting but what about marriage card, have thought of the fact that no matter
how you leap, you cannot leap from Nigeria and land in America or United Arab
Emirate, no matter how sweet your present seem to you, front of the latest
Venza will never be like your husband’ (Mrs).
DISCRIMINATING: looking down on anybody means looking down on
yourself, you were once poor or your father was, your family is not a heavenly
made rich family, they made all they have here on earth through the grace of
God that is why you must say this guy is a gold digger, of all sincere truth,
do you think you have a gold that he wants to dig, or let assume you are the
gold, everybody have an unbeatable potential embedded into them, it is hard
times that makes it look like they are in a closet which will not last for eternity
before their gift will unravel the mystery behind their hard times, respect
everybody.
UNDERESTIMATING: you are the best that is the truth that you know,
so don’t think that you are of more important than any other person because
such attitude is bizarre, you do your things perfectly I agree but don’t think
that nobody can do their things that way, don’t in anyway look down on anybody,
don’t think a guy cannot meet up your responsibility because you don’t know his
strength and ability, treat others the way you treat and address yourself.
HALF NAKED DRESSING: dress the way you want to be address no doubt
they said “first impression matters a lot”, this include the way you dress and
you know that it is a prostitute that have no honor for her femininity because
her body is for business and no responsible man that will want to talk such
lady into a relationship that will lead to marriage.
Too much make up: sometimes I wonder
what ladies think their face to be, your face as a lady is not a drawing book,
so why make look like a drawing book, what annoys me most time is that after
applying all the Mary Kay, blue, pink, red and purple on their face, there look
like something else, I guess such one will look like a masquerade. As a lady
that is ready for something better, be modest and simple, you don’t have to
spend six hours in the dressing room, just dress simple and let your natural
look give you what you want it is not your coloured face that makes you
attractive but your attitude, stop colouring the outside today and start
colouring inside because that is what you need, needs is different from wants.
LOOKING TOO FLY: it is not wrong to look good, in fact a lady is
suppose to look clean and nice on that special cloth, if you took note of what I
said earlier “special cloth”, a special cloth is not necessary a big deal
cloths from the most expensive boutique but a cloth that makes you look “wow”
irrespective of where you got it, third or second class store is not the issue
but the way you address the cloths, looking too fly is an embargo of a
successive attraction because decent men will see you like a “big fish” such
thing will make real men far from you except the guys that take and go, dress
simply and modestly.
TRYING TO GET ATTENTION OF MEN: you think you are not attractive
because men don’t give you attention or even look at your face, now you are at
the verge of seeing yourself the wrong
way, testing and judging yourself the wrong way, don’t let your wrong mentality
makes you restive thereby making you want to do anything to get the attention
of any man, such act will only make you look desperate and a cheap slot no man
is ready to settle with any lady that looks desperate, if you notice that men
don’t give you attention, what you need to do is to be modest and free your
heart from your wrong judgment to enable you build self esteem by doing things
that is of your interest, I know that it is not an easy burden to carry but you
just have to throw away the burden, catch fun and live your life, make new
friends and cast your cares like you have no challenges and do not forget to be
yourself, dress simple, avoid putting on too much artificial make up, look real
and not like a president daughter by
looking for imported cloths because that is not what you need, what you need is
simplicity and good attitude.
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