HOW TO BE A REAL WOMAN

If this the first time of visiting our blog, I will advise you to read our previous post to know what we are taking about you because there is when you will able to follow up this topic, I will advise you read our previous post here, if you have read our previous post then lets gear up our discussion to why we are here.

Woman means, a Wife who is well Oriented with an Innovating skills to Manage and direct the Affair of the home when her husband is not around and also render assistance when Needed. A woman is a key personality that makes a home work better because they know when and how to release and withhold, one will wonder what connection is a woman with good parenting, it has a lot of connection because it is a woman that is the home manager, she is the person that ensures that there is peace in the house,  she is the person that knows when the home is at shortage of anything, if you own a company and you happen to employ a corrupt manager, what do you think will happen to your company if you do not pay attention, your company will go bankrupt because the manager will make sure he corrupt the old staffs and dismiss anyone with a high level of integrity.

If you take a close look or observation at what the first paragraph talked about you will notice two themes there,
a woman and a wife which is two different issues, our focus here today is on a Woman, though I brought in wife to portray a point that will definitely be a discussion for another day, as a female folks you are about to be tempted to do things that is against true moral, in such circumstance you should know what and how to handle the situation so that the present does not disrupt and crippled your future, some women grew up without the right mentality and inculcation which is why they are taking relationship as a must fulfill thing even when they were wrongly groomed.

A Woman who does not have the criteria to meet the needs of a family cannot be a convenience wife, that is why most women cannot marry because they lack the skill to maintain and run the home and render assistance in a husband’s house because they are just a woman with no ability to convert things or ideas making the home static, a good manager of a home is a good wife, a woman that has lost that criteria or has been groomed I will want you to look down to the things you need to do in order to get your right back as a wife.

WORKING FORCE ATTITUDE: working force attitude is not necessary a physical working ability but both physical and intellectual attitude that enables you encourage, build and make anyone able to achieve one thing or the other through you either by advise or correction, so as to inspire the person to do the right thing at when the person is at the verge of giving up or failing by waking up the potential embedded in him or her.

MANAGERIAL ATTITUDE: managerial attitude is the strength of decoding the wrong thing at the right time and putting the right tool in place in order to put a stop to such thing from happening next time, it is also a skill that builds a relationship between you and the people you come across on daily basis in pursuit of achieving what the group or unit has vowed to achieve and if possible more than what they have agreed on, it is also the embedded skill that make all things be at a working condition not minding the hard time, an attitude that silent the voice of impossibility but bringing in the strength and prospect of progressive progression.

UNDERSTANDING: a woman should understand the state of things in good and bad times because she should be able to handle the situation irrespective of her initial agreement with anybody. You should understand that being a woman there are a lot of things that is expected of you, things like: strength, honesty, humility, submissiveness, sincerity and diligence, these potentials differentiate a woman from another. The most important one of these is humility, to be sincere with you as a woman there is no man that appreciate a woman that is mull headed, a woman that one tell one but reciprocation with two, you must understand that you are the woman which makes you the manager of the family and the man the head of the family which makes him the chief executive officer of the family, in a church they call him General Overseer, the one that oversees the affair of the family, your position is to manage the kids, home and report back to him so that he will know the nature of things without omitting anything.

SELF RELIANCE STRENGTH: this strength is the ability to control things very well without an assistance and interference from anybody, this is the attitude that anyone can build up without involving or consulting anybody because consulting people might lead to misinformation that might be detrimental to a relationship of five years or even a week old. Be strong to handle things in your own pace no matter the situation or circumstance, be the answer to your problem at first before any other person comes in, I mean you should give a try to your problem before inviting somebody.

SOLUTION BOUND: be a solution bound person, don’t act like a person that knows nothing (dummy) try every positive angle to proffer a solution to problems if incase you don’t know men appreciate a woman that proffer solution to problems, they have faith in such woman their confidence is high thereby making such woman their first choice of a (…..).

FAITH: as a woman you should be confident of yourself anywhere you find yourself do not allow anybody to intimidate either in words or attitude but when doing that you should be real, don’t fake the reality just be yourself and be respectful. Make any man that comes your way have faith in you, believe in you and know that with you the future is “wow”.

FUN: be fun to be with as a woman, don’t be the kind of woman that scares men with her haggard angry looking face, let your face be the happiness of another woman, it takes nothing to be happy but takes strength, force to be angry and moody, take people as one, be happy, be free with everyone, be the happy one even in a hard time, even if the situation says something different design happiness for yourself to look younger and brighter, and not frowning all the time.

GIFTS: give things freely especially to kids because they are blessings, be kind to everybody and be yourself when doing things don’t do it with a frowning or heavy face but with a happy heart.        

LOVE: love is an essential tool that makes the world go round, if you must stand your place as a woman you must make love back up your work your struggles because the beauty of any woman is the right of a good husband this you can actualize through the eyes that looks beyond wrongs or mischievous attitude but through real love that supersede all things.