Welcome to the house because we are about to discuss something delicate today, our topic is how to be a true husband,
being a husband is not an easy task for any man do not decisive yourself or
feel that you have read books that talks about marriage and how to handle
marital issue, I tell you what, the only thing that is constant in this life
we are living in is change that is why
you must advance and be verse on your understanding, change along with change
to be able to enjoy the dividends of change this can be taken as an advice or a
warning whichever way it pleases you
I appreciate you for stopping by
to know what will benefit you and your family, if you are still seeking I tell
you it will benefit you the more because this site has expose some of the
secrets that crumble marriages, without wasting our time I will like us to belt
up because we are about to take off from the airport of marriage catalyst to
the height of a marriage blossom, before we take off, I will like to know if
you have read our previous post, I don’t know why I always like to bring this
to light, well I guess it is the right thing to do because that is how you can
be able to enjoy the pleasure of flying the most classic airline of marriage solution,
if you haven’t read our previous post I will advise you to read it here
or continue with us if you have read it, but know that you cannot understand
what we will be discussing here today because every of our post is interwoven,
without taking our time I will want us to hit or pull the take off button.
Husband simply means, handle
issues with uniqueness so as to be able to suppress future bias that attack and
kills natural love and it defense, there is no marriage without
misunderstanding but the interesting part is the manner in which the man
handles the issue, when you know that you have a uniqueness inside of you, your
action and thinking takes another turn, the way you approach issues becomes
different, there is no secret attach to the feature of any man than the unique
way he attends to issues, that is why when some things happens people always look
for some persons because they believe that they have the solution to the
problem that is the raw uniqueness.
Being a husband is a huge responsibility that
talks about you been fairn, accepting that you are old enough to marry is a
plus to any man but remaining in one cubic they call bachelor is not a wise choice
for any man, don’t let money be the primary reason to remain a bachelor at
forty, if you are forty and not yet married but still keeps girls under the
umbrella of not being financially stable then you need deliverance, no man keep girls without
spending money, no matter how stingy that man is he must spend money, you must
buy spaghetti top for that girl, take it or leave being married is one of the best
and only thing that makes a man complete, marriage makes anyone seen
responsible, a married man is accord respect than a bachelor in any
community.
But it is preposterous to see a
married man fighting outside alarming his neighbors to come and resolve the
misunderstanding between him and his wife that is the most stupendous attitude
any man should put up because such attitude makes him look amateur, one who is
not ripe or due for marriage, a husband handles issues inside, nobody knows if he has misunderstanding with
his wife, he loves and cherish his wife with passion, he should be jealous of
his wife, when I say jealous I don’t mean the kind of jealousy that people
exhibit in our society but the jealousy of love, jealousy of hunger, jealousy
stress, jealousy of beating, jealousy of tears and jealousy of hurt.
If you have the jealousy of
hunger for your wife I will be pleased, that is what I call emotional bond
because what you will be feeling for her will be stronger than what you felt at
when you first met her, your concerns and centre of concentration will be to
see that she is satisfy with this you will have no time to think of anything
negative that will not bring progress because you know that if there is no
progress then there is a problem and marriage is not meant for problem but for
progress.
If you have the jealousy of
stress for her I will be glad because that is when you will be concerned of
what she does, is she ok, is she not over working, is she comfortable, these
are some of the questions that will be ringing in your head and such questions
will compel you to set a limit to her activities to reduce her workload so that
her heart will always be at peace, stress makes anyone restive, think
negatively, this will make you to give her the work that is not beyond her
ability.
If you have jealousy of beat, you
will be pleased by looking at her, her look, her stature and her beautiful face,
most things she does will be pleasing to you not that they are not annoying but
because you are happy seeing her smile and happy, not matter the gravity of her
offense you just look at her and work away, if you are the temperamental type
will only pick a shirt and leave the house and before you returns she might have
realize her mistake while you as well might
have cool off.
If you have the jealousy of tears
for her, all you being thinking of is how to see her at the crest of the wave
at all times because her happiness will be your happiness, her joy will be your
joy, her excitement will be your excitement living a fulfilled life together.
If you have the jealousy of hurt,
you will not like to hurt her because you will know that she is you and you are
her that is the string that makes home peaceful, so you will avoid anything
that will make her moody, gloomy, what flows from your heart then is how to
protect the fragile nature inside of her, they are meant to be protected, loved
and pampered.
If you have the jealousy of love
for her, she will become your world, the light that always come up whenever you
think or feels that you are in dark path, she will be the only one that makes
your heart beat faster than anyone else, you have every right to love her the
best way that you can with total honesty so that she can trust you, you will be
sincere to her, everything that has to do with you will concern her because she
is your world.
My advice to you as a husband or a
man is to be yourself in order not to be misled by your friends into extra
marital affair because such act have crippled marriages, for your marriage to
stand you have to be wise and smart, don’t take all advice, always ponder on
anything you are told so that you can filter it and take the ones best
applicable to you because to be sincere with you, nobody knows it all and
everybody cannot be the same, always know what you need and not what you want
because your want might mislead you.
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