HOW TO BE A REAL MAN TO YOUR WIFE

Today we will be discussion man due to my promise on our previous post, if you haven’t read our previous post I will advise that you read it here because all the discussion on this website is linked to each other, you can only understand what we are about to discuss here if you read our previous post, if you continue, I will presume that you have read and understood our previous post, so let gear up to what we have today, our topic of discussion today is a man because we contradicting and confusing ourselves on this issue which has made a lot of ladies feels that  we don’t know what we are doing as a man, I guess after this discussion we will know our place as a man.

Man is Manage or maintains an advance way of handling issues with the nerves of putting a lasting solution to a particular occurrence. With the above explanation, you will agree with me that a man is a solution bound person irrespective of where he finds himself, his rule there is to proffer solution to the problems that comes because he is not just a man for calling sake, most men has taken the right of being a man to manhandle people, trample on the right of the less privilege, this is not the rule of a man, this is not the path a man should walk, the rule of a man is to proffer solution a problem and not becoming a problem to people because that is where it began.

What does it mean to maintain or manage something, it simply means to see to the good working condition of that thing, if you are to oversee a day to day working condition of a machine and as the clock tick, if that machine stop working under your nose or administration and is not fixed then you are a woman and not a man, your reasons of leaving that machine at its deteriorating state will not count but the managerial skill that you lack, you are not a man if all you do is to stand at the way of others, you are not a man if you cannot handle issues, you are not a man if you cannot overlook issues.

A real man is generous, simple, read to adapt to systems talks and correct people when they are going astray, a real man does not rebel, a real man fight for the interest of all, a man that cannot maintain a pace at work cannot maintain a pace when he is married, no wonder the second home of some married men is a bar or their office, these men are women in a man form, a man do not run away from his problems, you stand with it, challenge it and take back what it has taken from you because no matter how far you run you will still come across it, it is your weakness and you cannot run away from your weakness because it is in you.

The weakness in most men has made it impossible for them to be happy in their house even when all they wants is at home, knowing yourself will make it easy for you to know somebody else, understand that you are not perfect will also make you know that the people around you cannot be perfect, don’t put on a dirty cloths and want to tell somebody that his shoe is dirty while what you fit yourself in is dirty, just be real and treat others the way you wish to be treated and not the other way round, magnanimity is not met to go one direction but all direction, things a man should know.

Respect: respect is a reciprocal so they say, you should accord respect to people so that you in return will be respected, don’t feel that you deserve respect more than somebody else because you are in a better position and he is not, give him that respect because you don’t know what tomorrow holds.

Understanding: show understanding to everybody because this world is spherical in shape and it rotate like football, you never can tell where the pot of fortune will roll to tomorrow, bear with people, try to change lives and be yourself.

Pride: stay away from pride because it has destroyed and made a lot of empire fall, don’t think that you are too superior to somebody but see yourself the way you see that person, always put a check to your daily so that you don’t take the glory of God, it is too dangerous.

Sincerity: be sincere to yourself and to the people around you, there is no gain in deceit, it only makes one lose trust and importance when known for deceit.

So I advise you to learn how to manage issues and every other important thing that is not outlined here.