I wish to welcome you to the
house as we are about to discuss an important issue because it is very funny to
see a happy family soon turn unhappy family, a family that enjoys marriage soon
endures marriage, and sometime you see or hear couples attributing fault to
each other while as a matter of fact the problem is either or rather from
nobody but self desire that could no longer be met due to a present situation,
when such thing happens what is expected of the couples, should they divorced
or stay to endure the marriage, the answers to these questions is at our door
post but before we answer these questions, we like to advise you to read our
previous post her so that you can get a better drive and
understanding of what we are about to discuss here today but if you have read
and understood then let’s pull the take off button so that we can make a proper
and judicious use of our time here.
We lack so many things but claims
that we are the champion of all times, we close our eyes yet we claim that we
see more than the eagle whereas we see nothing, the valuable life which our
forefathers lived is now assumed old school because we feel that we are wise
and civilize now, wives now call their husbands by their first name, husbands
now treat wives like girl friends, no value anymore, are we really living or
what, the pride of manhood and womanhood has elude the society.
our concern should be how to go back to our root, let’s bring back our honor that we have
ignorantly abandon because of foreign tradition, we are the best of what we are before now but now our value has elude us, we need to bring back our true value to the
society and one of the way to achieve this is to do that which is right, let’s
consider marriage silent killer.
VALUE ON MATERIAL THINGS
Appreciation of vehicles, phones,
cloths and every other material things destroys marriage, we are suppose to
place value on our marriage and not material things, the reason why divorce is
rapid these days is because we marry the people we do not know because of how they look
and the gift they shower on us, that is why you little girls marry
aged man because of money, while the men go for body and facial beauty, love
that makes a beautiful girl of those days to marry a farmer no longer exist, in fact beautiful girls
are now made for Senators, Governors and Presidents, parents now caution their
children never to bring a poor man to their door post not to take of entering
the house, where is the value of womanhood?.
If material things brings two
wrong persons together in the name of marriage, such material things will make
them go their separate ways because the journey of marriage that one begins
with a wrong motive and believe never ends well, so if you are one of the
persons that embark on such journey to enrich yourself, I regret to tell you
that you have made the worse mistake because you will no longer be respected
irrespective of your possession that you have cunningly acquired, don’t
marry any man only because he is on cash, marry the man because you love him, as a man don’t marry any woman because she is rich or because she
looks like a goddess marry her because your heart yells for her, marriage that there is no love never stand the test of time.
TAKING INFATUATION FOR LOVE
There are things that can never
be linked to each other but we seriously feel that we can manage them when we don’t know that
it is a thin string that connect and disconnect the flow of electric current to it final
destination, marriages fail today, disappointment set in today because we
mistake infatuation for love, though they trickily work in the same way but are not
the same.
Infatuation is a lustful desire
that has a burning flame that burnings outside the heart, this is why you must
be careful of how you handle emotional issues, infatuation is one of the thing
that makes a woman leave her man for a rich guy or any guy, a marriage cannot stand when
one follows the shadow of love because a shadow can never be like a real object, no wonder they say that all that glitters are not gold, infatuation is the
fake gold of a real gold call love, for marriage to stand everyone must
understand the distance between love and infatuation.
Love is a deep and strong
affection that stands against all odd, love is one of the things that makes one
denies himself or herself of some thing in
order to make others happy, love stand for people, love encourages people, love
suffers long and never despise anybody, love is a burden bearer and not
a thing that hinders success.
You should come out of the shell
(infatuation)you call love so that you can set a good marital foundation for your future
because it is only love that can make things work and not strong lustful
desires that fades in no time, women abandon their kids at their husband’s
house because there has never be love, no string of love exist between parties,
if you want your marriage to stand and work well then make love your watch
word.
TAKING SEX
FOR LOVE
Some people appreciate sex a lot,
they take sex as the ultimate of all things, you should know that love is not sex and sex is not love, don’t allow anybody make you believe that his love for
you should be expressed through sex, mind you sex is not a crime, it is a natural thing but it is very dangerous when sex make anyone
fall in love because such one will also fall in love with somebody else that
meets his or her sexual desire, marriage should not be built on sexual
strength because sex is not the priority but that does not mean that a man or woman should not perform his or duty as a husband or wife .
Men take advantage of so many
ladies in this aspect, use and dump, if a lady is addicted to sex, she needs a deliverance
because that is a very big problem, such lady can never be sexually satisfy unless she meets
someone like her, but know this such lady hardly get married because of her sexual
urge that some men cannot cope with, imagine having a girl that is a sex
glutton, one who cannot do without sex, if his guy travels for two today’s what
then happens, she go for the guy next door, what about when she is married
and her husband travels one week, you see why there is bound to be problem if any man
marries such lady or guy, know this today, sex is different from love.
Let’s talk about the situation
whereby the guy have sexual weakness and the woman is a sexual machine, what do
you think will happen in such marriage, the woman can only take it for a while and
if the situation doesn’t turns out well, to your tent oh Israel, she will either divorce
her husband or cheat on him, be very careful choosing a woman for a wife.
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