HOW TO MAKE MARRIAGE WORK AND ENJOYABLE

I want to formally welcome you back from our short time break, today our discussion is HOW TO MAKE MARRIAGE WORK AND ENJOYABLE, but before we proceed, I will want to know if you have read our previous post. If you have read and understood the previous post then let’s gear up but if you haven’t, I will advise you to read it here so that you can get a better understanding of what we are about to discuss here today because our discussions are interwoven.

This is the flight that takes one away from the airport of marriage catalyst to ever bliss cloud of marriage fulfillment and happy ever after, I want you to belt up as we are about taking off so as to make proper and judicious use of our time here.

Marriage is not just like any other thing, the issue is a complex one though but the fact remains that marriage is sweet when the necessary ingredients are in place, somebody might want to know the necessary ingredients, the necessary ingredients are basic and they are what prompt you to engage that lady or young man into a discussion that finally lead to your relationship.

You might have seen something in that young man or woman that interest you and therefore pursue it, now you are married and all of a sudden all the feelings you had is dying off gradually, the best thing to do at this time is to take a walk in the memory lane, think about the first day you met this person, your dating experience, what you fancy in the relationship and sit down and ask yourself some questions to know what is wrong.

After dwelling in the issue and have known what is wrong then you can rewrite the wrong, create a time for both of you, go out once in way in a resort center, try to bring back the dating experience, don't think or feel that your partner is a terrible mistake because in life, there are no mistakes, we are the ones who fashion mistakes, bring back the first love, overlook wrongs, don't settle for blames but solutions because you are together not to look at the weakness of each other but to be the strength of each other.

Nobody is perfect this you must know, ask yourself why you liked your partner, why you chose to spend the rest of your life with him or her, the way to bring back your first love is to do the things you did for your partner when you started the relationship, show understanding don’t behave like you are the righteous one but act right because you are one, for this reason the Bible said, a man shall leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife.

We feel we are tired of our marriage when our desires are no longer meant, either because of the nature of things or because your partner chooses not to for reasons best known to them, instead of stockpiling issues, why not call him or her to explain things, tell him how you felt when he walked out on you, tell him how you felt when he shouted at you, explain yourself to him.

THE BEST WAY TO SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE FROM COLLAPSING AS A WOMAN

• Make God the foundation of your marriage and build your principles on the word of God
• Know what your husband likes and dislike
• Respect your husband even when times are hard
• Don’t compare your husband to anybody
• Love your husband more
• Encourage your husband when you are experiencing storms, you are his help mate
• Show understanding; talk with him if he wants to leave him if he is not in the mood
• Don’t expose your husband’s weakness to anybody not even his family

THE BEST WAY TO SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE FROM COLLAPSING AS A MAN

• Make God the foundation of your marriage and build your principles on the word of God
• Know what you wife likes and dislike
• Love your wife regardless of your present situation
• Treat your wife with respect because she is a human
• Care for your wife
• Encourage your wife especially when she feels that there is no hope anymore
• Support your wife because you are both one
• Take her like your younger sister, your mother and your best friend
• Listen to her whenever she has something to say, don’t go like you talk too much
• Give her time to express herself; don’t be too busy for her
• Take her out once in a while; give her time, quality time, a time when nothing will disturb your fun
• Don’t compare your wife with any woman
• No matter how awful your voice is, sing for each other
• Tell each other lovely tales
• Make each other laugh and love each other.

Above these, you knew how blossom your relationship was before marriage, those things that made that experience a memory worth sharing should be apply now that the sweet soup is about becoming souring, you owe each other that. Know this, marriage is not a thing you jump into and jump out because it is for better and for worse, however and whatever you see, take it as part of the marriage.

Don’t share blames but solutions, before marriage, what you have is a house but now that you are married, you now have a home, a home is not a battle field but a place of happiness, joy, peace and of merriment, make it an experience to make these things work, understand each other for more  click this link Errors fighting marriages.