Thank you for stopping by, we are in the house
today to discuss an important issue but before we continue, I will like to
know if you have read our previous post because this post is the continuation
of that one. If you haven’t, I will advise you to read it here, but
if you have read and understood the post then let’s proceed. Our topic today is
parents, who are parents? Parents are the two persons who came together to
bring forth their kind, how are parents a force against marriage? One will be
forced to ask, Don’t worry or be in a hurry because we will answer these
questions as we are about to take off so that we can make proper and judicious
use of our time here
A
parent should be the best friend of any child but our economy have given some
parents wrong notion therefore neglecting their value and role in the life of
their children. As a father or mother you are suppose to be the best friend of
your child, these days who cares, what they are after is for a rich man to marry
their child. This attitude is not wrong, but it becomes wrong when a father or
mother wishes to satisfy themselves before putting their children happiness
into consideration.
This
attitude is too rapid in town these days, they have inculcated the wrong
interpretation of love to these youngsters, what they believe now is that their
husband must be wealthy, making it difficult for the poor to marry at ease, a
child confidence for true love has elude the society, parents now warn their
children never to introduce a poor man to them as their husband to be, that is
why most girls stay away from any guy that is still struggling to stand on his
feet.
Some
parents wish to look for a husband or a wife for their children; they deny
their children of their right. It is not the right of a father or mother to
dictate who their sons or daughters should marry because it is the child that
knows the kind of a woman or man they wish to marry but since their parents
have interfere making it difficult for the children to marry their choice.
SHORTCOMING
- Marrying
the wrong person
- Late marriage
- Suffering in a husband’s house
- Enduring marriage
- They may
marry without loving each other
SOLUTION
Know
that in every ship there is a captain; you are the captain and commander of
your choice and not your parents. If God can give everyone right to make
choice, why do you now feel that you owe your parents one for being against
your choice so long him or she has no questionable character? You don’t owe
them anything when it comes to your marriage. The only thing you owe them is
care which is far from the issue of marriage.
Don’t
allow anybody to imprison you in the name of parents, they will not live with
the woman they want you to marry, you are the man or woman that will live with
him or she. Parental marriage hindrance can be handled if you follow or apply
the rules below.
THINGS YOU MUST KNOW
- Put God first in all
you do
- Don’t walk out on who
you love except for considerable reasons.
- Both of you should know
that your parents have gone through this process, therefore, they
shouldn’t stop you from marrying the responsible partner that seeks your
hand in marriage.
- Know what you need and
not what your parents want.
- Stand for what you
believe and not what people believe.
- Make things work for
yourself and for your partner
- You have the final say.
- Be careful on your
part.
- Listen to your parents
and filter whatever they discuss with you and take the one that best applicable
to you
- In all of these respect
your parents
Parents should allow their children to marry their choice because
it is the child that will live with such person for the rest of their lives.
·
The children should have the final say; love is a thing of the
heart and not of the head
· Wealth should not be the priority for any parent because most of
them married poor but they are rich today
· The children should fight for their choice no matter how the
present circumstance seem because the future is bright
· Parents should know that no matter how ugly the present
circumstance seem, if a raw gold is given a chance to be refined, reshape and refurbished, it
will be valued and expensive in a nutshell.
·
They should each protect and fight for what they feel and believe.
·
Love is gold, they should be patient as the raw gold goes
through fire for it true beauty to show forth.
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