Adultery And Prevention

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practice because of their sexual desire that their partner cannot provide, some do it because of material benefit, some do it because they want to protect their job, some do it because their partner is no longer fun to be, some do it because their partner lack some potentials, if maybe true that one of these reasons is why a man or a woman have to defile their marital vow, then it is better not to marry, before any couple became what they are today, they started from somewhere, that is the most reason why young stars are advised to go into decent courtship before marriage.
Marriage is not instituted for fun but for serious business for the serious people, you did not choose to marry because your friends are married and you are not, you got married because it was a choice, your choice, marriage is a foundation of life that is why a man must cling to a woman, the holy book, Bible advised man to love his wife as Christ love the church and that the woman should submit to her husband, a man that truly love her wife will do anything to correct the error in her and not crucify her and a woman that is submissive to her husband must protect the interest of her husband. No matter what may be the reason why a man is indulging in an extra marital affair is not worth it, nobody have the right to defile marital vow because it is sacred, your spouse is your responsibility to correct and
educate, involving yourself in an extra marital affair simply mean that you are not matured enough to get married, matured minds solve their problems and not go outside for alternative, there is a saying that goes “two wrong never make it right”, love look beyond our offence, love is only after others happiness, submissiveness is all about respecting your husband and your body so as not to give it to any other person because it is your husband’s. SHORTCOMING *Crises in the home *Divorce *Inculcating wrong mentality *Separating kids from parental love and value *Giving children reasons to misunderstand the reason and concept of marriage SOLUTION *Know why you are going into marriage *Know who you are marrying *Learn to listen when your partner is talking *Build a solution base strategy in your relationship or marriage *Encourage and educate each other *Do not fight, proffer solution to your problems *Solve your problems unanimously *Do not involve third party whenever you have issues *Build your home *Build your life