Today we will be discussing abortion in marriage, first what is an abortion? Abortion is the act of truncating a progressing process either in stopping it from developing through removal, we will be discussing so many outlines today so that we can correct the ideology of making abortion the only option or alternative when unwanted pregnancy issues surface, the best way to handle it and measure to prevent its occurrence in the future, the objectives of this posts are as follows.
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ABORTION
IN MARRIAGE
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REASON
FOR ABORTION
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NEED FOR
ABORTION
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DANGER OF
ABORTION
· PREVENTION OF ABORTION
ABORTION IN MARRIAGE
Abortion in marriage is the process whereby a married woman gets pregnant unexpectedly and goes to a clinic, hospital or get pills from a local medicine store in order to truncate the growth of the fetus by removal or termination because she does not want the child at that particular time, some of the women feel that it is shameful to get pregnant when her baby still suckles and as such she may feel that it is not her fault that she want to or that she aborted the one in her womb.
The truth is that nobody should be blamed any woman that finds herself in such a condition may happen for a reason when such a thing happens, abortion should not be the next line of action, let’s see it this way, assuming your parents aborted you will you be alive today, let’s forget if it is a wanted pregnancy or not? The answer is no, you wouldn’t have been alive, if you get pregnant keep it irrespective of your condition in the marriage or relationship, most great men are products of unwanted pregnancy.
REASON FOR ABORTION
There are several reasons why people go for abortion, maybe the person responsible for the pregnancy refuse to take responsibility, some think that their relationship is not secure, some feel that their husband no longer show them, love, some people feel that they are suffering in the marriage, some people will say that they don’t want more children than the ones that they have is enough, they are correct but not right, not all that seems right is actually right.
No matter your reasons about or going for an abortion drop it and keep the child because that child is innocent, abortion is murder, the moment you abort a pregnancy, you have taken a life irrespective of the stage of the pregnancy, it is not ideal to take the life that you cannot give, so do not go for an abortion.
NEED FOR ABORTION
When you think that there is a need for an abortion, you should also think of the need to keep the pregnancy because you do not know the reason why it came at that particular time, does one get pregnant accidentally, if yes, does one make love accidentally? The answer should be no, some people were rapped and as such, they believe that the child will someday ask of their father and they will not be able to tell the child that he or she is a product of rap.
If you cannot handle a tense situation, then you cannot help someone in a tense situation as well because it is the way you handle your personal issue that you will handle someone else, the needful is to ask yourself why you got pregnant, your experience can either save a life or take it, it all depends on how you handle your situation when it happens because people are looking at you especially younger ones who look up to, keep the pregnancy.
DANGER OF ABORTION
There is high risk and disadvantage in abortion, there are situations whereby the doctor who carries out abortion sleeps with their patients before carrying out the abortion this is not a rumor it happens, what then is your profit, if a man will sleep with you and collect your money before doing his job, a lot of people went into the process with the assurance of coming back alive but could not make it, some came out without womb meaning that they will not be able to get pregnant on a normal circumstance except through miracle, you see, the danger of abortion outweighs that of keeping it.
PREVENTION OF ABORTION
In these modern days, unwanted pregnancy can be prevented because there are a lot of programs that prevent women from getting unwanted pregnancy, these days some women target two to three years before they think of getting another child, child spacing is easily done now through family planning, you and your husband should work into any public hospital and apply for family planning, you will be educated and then make a choice, it is that easy so that you do not deny your husband sex at home in the name of child spacing.
In conclusion: How long will you continue aborting pregnancy, Sex is normal, it is not a sin in marriage, will you deny your husband sex because you want to space your childbearing? there is no problem without a solution, instead of denying your husband sex that may cause your marriage, it is better for both of you to visit a health center and apply for family planning, it is advisable you go there with your husband, it is the solution and suitable way out, good luck, I wish you success.
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