GOOD PARENTING

Welcome to the house because we are about to discuss an important issue today, hope you have read our previous post I will advise you to read it here if you haven’t but if you have read and understood our previous discussion then let’s go, our topic today is “good parenting” the most important issue of a happy and progressive family, some people don’t know what is good parenting, they don’t know how to be a good parent, they think what they need to be a good parent is already in place, a big compound, a serene and conducive environment, shoes, cloths, food amongst other necessities, but know this today, your child(ren) deserves much more, I mean much more, I will love to keep you with me for a while on this train but not long because this issue is a delicate one and we need to board the marriage high class flight of learning without graduating for a proper and judicious use of our time here, so let’s go straight to business. 

Parent means Practice the Attitude that is Responsible or worth Emulating before your child (ren) because they Notice all your action either in Practical or Theory, from that explanation you will agree with me that good parenting pertains your attitude, the way you talk, the way you address issues at the present of your child (ren) because you are their primary role model, they look up to you morally and materially, you can only give what you have, and you child(ren) can only learn what you have to give, don’t be the kind of parent who want their child (ren)to be saint whereas there not, how possible is that, it is not possible.

The wrong up bring of any child is always attributed to the parents, why somebody may ask, it is simple, the parent is the best play mate or pear group of any child, that is why a parent must inculcate the right attitude from the beginning so that the child(ren) should not be easily influence outside, create the right attitude and not wrong, make sure that you at all times provide guidance.

Your kind of parent matters a lot because some parents believe that all their child(ren) needs is money, cloths serene environment neglecting the vital aspect of good parenting, nothing is as important as you being with your child(ren), show them love, play with them, let the child(ren) have a free and convenient time, share that quality and valuable time that comes once in a while with them because our economy and environment has made us believe that we have to work out our strength before we know that such day is fulfilled, this is why some child(ren) hardly know their parents because before they wakes up the father is out of the house and before the father comes back at night the child(ren) is already asleep.

No matter how tight your schedule, you should always make out time for your child(ren) because they are the reason why you are stiffing your neck, receiving insults from your boss or customers, you are their watch, don’t make them believe that all they need to make up their family tomorrow is only to provide for their family material necessities without sharing feelings, love with their family, your child(ren) learns from you, if you always beat up your wife, abuse your wife, insult your wife’s family in the presence of your child(ren), you are indirectly telling them that what you are doing is right and they will end up doing such thing.

What we assume to be family curses are not really family curses but family indiscipline, if as a parent you are not discipline then your child(ren) will become indiscipline because from the abundance of the a  river you get water , it is a simple ideology, some women and men don’t care about what they say or do in the presence of their child(ren) , this divert my attention to the type of program that we allow our child(ren) to watch, the kind of friends our child(ren) mingle with.

It is like you don’t know that you are the caretaker of your child(ren), your duty as a parent is to raise the child(ren) as a person of virtue without influencing the child(ren) minds wrongly but with high moral and integrity  you must not compel your child(ren) to be like you, you don’t do that, what you are permitted to do is to coach them to the level of confidence, they should know what they need through your up bring.

You are their teacher, your work as parents is to groom them to become a prominent person decently and not through bad attitude, when they are doing wrong, you should call their attention to it and correct them to prevent them from repeating such thing next time because a child(ren) education begins at home, the father is the male teacher while the mother is the female teacher which is why their child(ren) should be the best because what the child(ren)needs in school is already at home.

Now that you know what the word parents means, which is practice the attitude that is responsible or worth emulating before you kids or child, I think you can now groom your child by first showing them the right and the wrong thing from your action; this is to say that you are their role model, if you want them to be good then you must put up good attitude, if you want them to be respectful then you must show them how to be respectful, if you want them to be truthful you too must be truthful and avoid asking them to tell lies because you don’t want to see somebody.

Thank you for being there for us, this area of our discussion has come to an end because we are done with this month, next month is going to be a different issue totally but the complete content of this one is available for sale, there a lot of topics of interest that is not covered here that is in the complete content of this book.

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