I wish to welcome you to the
house as we are about to discuss an important issue because it is very funny to
see a happy family soon turn unhappy family, a family that enjoys marriage soon
endures marriage, and sometime you see or hear couples attributing fault to
each other while as a matter of fact the problem is either or rather from
nobody but self desire that could no longer be met due to a present situation,
when such thing happens what is expected of the couples, should they divorced
or stay to endure the marriage, the answers to these questions is at our door
post but before we answer these questions, we like to advise you to read our
previous post her
so that you can get a better drive and understanding of what we are about to
discuss here today but if you have read and understood then let’s pull the take
off button so that we can make a proper and judicious use of our time here.
Marriage is an institution that
you should never think of graduating from, the only stage or situation in which
anyone graduate is death, death should be the only reason why a husband and
wife separates, but these days marriage stage drama is almost everywhere we go,
some tempt one to ask why such couples pass or give out the wrong
interpretation of marriage to the young ones coming up.
It is wrong to make the young
stars who are believing in God for a true life partner think that marriage is
not a good deal, no matter what, the younger ones look up to the people who is
already in it, husbands and wives should be able to manage their marriage
effectively to guarantee their children that they know what they are doing.
The people who are facing marital
issues today are short sighted people, the people who think that life is a bed
of roses, before one should marry he or she should be matured mentally and not in
stature, most people think that what they need for a successful marriage is a
matured man and a woman, but in that same maturity, you see couples fighting
while young stars unanimously resolve their issues without the interference of
anybody.
Divorce should be the last thing
that should come to the mind of any couple, marriage is enjoyable when couples
come to realize that there is no perfect human being anywhere because it is the
situation whereby a man or a woman expect more than what they have that makes
them feel that the marriage is no longer fulfilling, if your marriage is not
fulfilling, take a memory lane walk so as to know when the unfulfilled element
start crippling in so that you can proffer solution to that problem.
It is something that made two
people to come together; I think that same thing should make them remain
together, clergies have issues with their wives but still love and care for
their wives, what is the different between the clergy and every other man,
there is no different because they all have feelings, one reason why divorce is
rapid is because some young stars ignorantly got pregnant, instead of doing the
right thing, what they do is starting up a family, marriage is not the first
thing, yes they have made the mistake, intentional or intentionally, what the
parents should think of is how to see that the girl involve keep the child,
after birth, she can either go back to school or learn a trade.
Marriage is not a thing that one
rush into because it is a school, before a child is admitted in any school, he
or she should be up to the age of two, why the delay, why not immediately after
birth, the delay is for the child to be a little bit developed, such is
marriage, mind you that two child who might be same age group might be admitted
in same class when one will perform than
the other and if the one that perform less is wise, he will be close to the
other so that he can learn the secret that he doesn’t know from him.
One who is not ready or has not
prepared for marriage can never enjoy marriage, it is like a person who want to
go into a business that he or she knows nothing about, trust me such one will
jump out of the marriage, there are two things that you don’t jump into, one marriage the other power, you have to be sure
within you that you are ready for marriage before venturing because it is a
journey of no return, no wonder it is said to be a death do apart thing, don’t ever
think of divorce because it is not the right option for marriage, always have
this at the back of your mind, two wrong cannot make one right.
If the issue is beyond you seek
wise counsel, people are there before you don’t bear the load all alone, it is never
meant for one person to bear, your intelligence is not up to that level because
things changes everyday marriage is no different and lastly always remember God
and put Him first in all you do.
SHORTING COMING OF DIVORCE
It gives any child wrong mentality
It can destroy the future of the children
It can make a child useless
It gives the wrong interpretation to any man who wishes
to propose to any lady from a divorced home
It makes a child hates his mother or father
A child from such home lack proper up bringing especially
if the child is with his mother
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