Welcome to the house for another business of the day, we
are here to discuss an important issue that involves our young men and ladies,
I will want to know if you have read our previous topic, if you haven’t, I will
advise that you read it here
but if you have read and understood then let’s pull the take off button so that
we can make proper and judicious use of our time here.
What is good for the goose is
good for the girdle, this common philosophy is indeed true one should not think
that he or she only deserve good that someone else doesn’t. The mistakes we
make as human being is that we believe that we can do what we cannot do, there
is a place that should be given to man to take decision while there is a place
that should be given to God for him to direct and lead us.
We all believe that God founded
marriage, this is true but should we then base our marital issue on that
ground, some people have find it as a point of duty to go from one Church to
another meeting different pastors for spiritual insight to the future for
marital issues, if you want to marry, you should know the kind of wife you want
to marry as a person, God have given you the right to choice, make your choice
and live with it.
The reason why people are advised
to court before they marry is for them to know if they are compatible, the
issue of compatibility cannot be over emphasize, you have to know each other,
trust each other, know the weak point of each other, know that you can condole
each other, you must be sure of each other, know you can tolerate each other,
know that you can correct each other, if any of these is omitted then there is
bound to be a problem.
Nobody is perfect this we know
but at least your spouse should possess seventy percent of what you need as a
man or as a woman, thirty percent can be tolerated, with that you can gradually
make amendment at where it is necessary, if a woman cannot change from
something during courtship, it is a choice of every individual though but I
find difficult to believe that she will when you marry her because her change
should be from the onset.
If you know that you cannot
condole any woman attitude during courtship do not bother marrying her or if
you do not love any woman during courtship do not bother marrying her because
she will become a burden to you and you might be in bondage or put her in
bondage, marriage is not might to be a bondage but a free and loving experience
that should and continue to exist between couples.
Something annoys me when I see
couples fighting, to me couples are not suppose to be fighting to the extent of
bringing third party to sort out their differences, it is normal for couples to
have misunderstanding and it is also normal for same couples to resolve it
amicably, when playing Romeo and Juliet game inside nobody knew about it so
when issues comes up nobody should know about it as well.
Before you marry anybody know
what you need because the problem with us is that we go for what we want
instead of what we need, know this, our want can never take the place of our need
our need is our necessity and some kind permanent while our want is for instant
pleasure and it is temporary.
I have heard of the circumstance
whereby marriage only last for an hour or two such thing happened because they
both mistook relationship for marriage, there are relationships that deceives
people, a relationship that is of blissfulness might not be promising when it
come to marriage reason because pretense is the most deceptive power for
accepting right for wrong.
SHORTCOMING FOR MARRYING FOR FUN
Don’t stand the test of time
Early divorce
Turns home to a battle field
It beget irresponsible child
Wrong mentality is easily harnessed
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