I want to formally welcome you back
from our short time break, today our discussion is pride, but before we
proceed, I will want to know if you have read our previous post. If you have
read and understood the previous post then let’s gear up but if you haven’t, I
will advise you to read it here
so that you can get a better understanding of what we are about to discuss here
today because our discusses are interwoven.
This is the flight that takes one
away from the airport of marriage catalyst to ever bliss cloud of marriage
fulfillment and happy ever after, I want you to belt up as we are about taking
off so as to make proper and judicious use of our time here.
Pride is egoism, super flying
feelings that inculcate a wrong believe. It makes anyone feel superior; it
makes someone act like there is nobody like them and they feel that the people
around them are not up to their status. The reason why some people exhibit this
attitude is, their achievement in life, their family and social background,
these things can make one believe that they are the best.
Pride is a very bad seed because it
has made a lot of people lost opportunities, especially the poor ones who might
been bragging out of pride, making people feels that they are rich whereas they
are not. When somebody who is suppose to help them hears them, their door
instantly got shut because they have claimed to be rich so no need to help
them.
Some persons feels that nobody is
up to their status therefore insults anybody that comes their way even when
their should be husband or wife comes because they may be poor, some persons
have lost their lives because of pride, some have lost their live partner
because of this menace, when you feel that you are too important, you soon
notice that people will start avoiding you because such thing might make you
disrespect people, it make you see everybody as your age mate when they are
older than you.
As a lady, it will take you nothing
to be respectful; no man will be ready to marry any woman who is full of
herself. Pride makes you look down on people, discriminate, separating yourself
from a group of persons. No family will endorse your relationship with their
son not to talk of marriage, though any man can decide to marry such lady but
take it from me, such marriage will never stand the test of time because of
pride.
REASONS WHY
PRIDE DESTROYS RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE
- Pride don’t appreciate
- Pride devalue things
- Pride look down
- Pride discriminate
- Pride disrespect
- Pride hates
- Pride separates itself
- Pride act superior
- Pride kills
SOLUTION
There is a solution to every
problem, and this one is not an exception, if you are a person that always
attach importance to yourself, the solution to your problem is to put yourself
in someone else shoe, it may be a guy or girl that you have in one way or the
other insulted or embarrassed in public in the time past, how did you feel, bad
or good?
I guess you must feel bad, that was
how they felt when you insulted them, if it is not a good experience then put a
check to how you talk to people, approach people, address people irrespective
of their family or social background because we are all one, forget the fact
that you are rich while others are poor.
The way to put a check to how you
talk to people, address people, approach people is to treat them the way you
wish to be treated, if you want them to treat you like a president, then you
have to treat them like a president, if you wish to be treated like a senator
then treat them the same way because respect is a reciprocal.
Your wisdom is nothing, your
experience is worthless, your wealth is useless if you put on the cloths of
pride, because your wisdom, experience, wealth is a personal thing, nobody
cares about what you are, it is who you are that matters, how you are seen.
How to put a check to your pride
- Don’t think that you achieved all you have alone and by yourself
- Treat others the way you want to be treated
- See everybody the way you see yourself
- Always judge your attitude alone
- Accord respect to people
- Be simple and nice
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