I want to formally welcome you back
from our short time break, today our discussion is FRIENDS, but before we
proceed, I will want to know if you have read our previous post. If you have
read and understood the previous post then let’s gear up but if you haven’t, I
will advise you to read it here so that
you can get a better understanding of what we are about to discuss here today
because our discusses are interwoven.
This is the flight that takes one
away from the airport of marriage catalyst to ever bliss cloud of marriage
fulfillment and happy ever after, I want you to belt up as we are about taking
off so as to make proper and judicious use of our time here.
Who is a friend?, a friend is a person that define you to
other people. A friend is not just anybody that you come across because he or
she is good outwardly, this is to say that a friend is a person that you knows
everything about, family life, school life and social life, if not everything
at least you should know what he or she do for a living.
A friend is like a mirror, when you stand at the front of a
mirror what happens, you see yourself right? This is how people see you in your
friends, if your friends are prostitute then you are a prostitute, if your
friends are thieves then you are a thief, if your friends gossip then you
gossip as well.
Most ladies find it difficult to marry today because of the
company they keep, though, they may not be bad people but because they associate
themselves with the wrong people, others see them as wrong people, some
friends create problem in your foundation therefore making you seem bad or a
wrong life partner.
If you want to be respected, you have to keep company with
the right sect of people else you will be less of whom you should be. Some ladies
lament of not meeting the right person, you will not get to meet with the right
person because your friends have denied you of that privilege.
SHORTCOMING
OF WRONG FRIENDS
* You lost confidence
* People judge you wrongly
* People avoid you
* You are described wrongly
* People discourage others to know you as a person
SOLUTION
Watch your friends, if they don’t have the same principle
like you then stop being close to them as they say bad communication corrupt
good manners. Create your road for your future so that a friend doesn’t sway
your attention and believe to something different.
You know what you want, where you are coming from and where
you are going to and what you want from life. Rich or poor, we all have a dream
to pursue, so pursue your dreams, meet right people to do the right thing
because wrong people will make you do wrong things.
WHAT TO DO
* Keep friends that have the same believe with you
* Keep friends that encourages you to do the right thing
* Keep friends that always want to see you happy
Keep friends that have your kind of dream
* Keep friends who care about others and not just themselves
* Keep friends that have respect for everybody
* Keep good friends.
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